I have been with my wife for 15 years. we have had a good s8x life, 2 kids and all, and recently I bought a p*nis extender as a new s8x toy. Wife was in to it and I could not handle it. Was simultaneously getting off to hotwife p*rn in free time, love/hate type sitch. We continue to have a solid+ s8x life (always initiated by me) but I am obsessed with the idea that she would be better served by a larger p8nis and that I am insufficient in size. Certain positions are no longer working since we used the toy and it is always in the back of my mind.. Going crazy!! I am on the shy side of average size.. 5.5 inches or so at my hardest, 3.5-4 around..